Sunday, January 22, 2017

Book Review: Four Seasons of Loneliness: A Lawyer's Case Stories




This wasn't a bad book. It is more so I just didn't know what to expect from it. 

The book was a little forgetful for me. It was a little dry. Perhaps this just isn't the correct book for me. The subject matter in this book is extremely rough. When I read the description it seems interesting enough. For some reason, the book just fell a little flat. 

I did like the fact it is a look upon on loneliness. The effect it has on us, not just feeling lonely because you're missing someone, but true and permanent loneliness. The kind that lingers and envelops you. The one that tastes bitter.  The author uses four different case studies. These are stories that are similar to real life. The problems the people are facing are all to common place in this world.  

The author uses these cases to explain the theory he has. His background is very impressive. J. W. Freiberg holds a Ph.D. from UCLA and a JD from Harvard Law School. This gave his book some more weight and allowed the book to be a little more important to me. He uses his background and knowledge to create excellent stories. The problem like I said was that they weren't every memorable. The writing was well executed. 

The stories themselves are a rough read. They are filled with pain and suffering. You really can feel the loneliness in each and ever case study. I thought it was an entertaining memoir and unlike anything I had previously read. 

The book has a moral. In my opinion, this book is sort of trying to explain that we all live in the world. Bad things happen to everyone. We don't get a choice in the matter. We just get a choice in how we react and perceive what is going on around us.

Goodreads Description: 


What happens when loneliness engulfs us? How do we manage life when the absence of adequate connections becomes an excruciating hunger?


During his extraordinary decades-long career as an attorney, J. W. Freiberg consulted on hundreds of cases involving clients affected by chronic and debilitating loneliness. Here, in four adapted stories from his practice, he reveals how loneliness can impact us in every season of our lives. A fascinating cast of characters emerges: the traumatized teenager forever branded as a sexual predator, the man who spends the prime of his life in solitary confinement in Mao-era China, the truck driver whose self-education isolates him from his community, and the professor at the end of his life who has vast knowledge about the history of love but none to call his own.

Told through Freiberg’s unique lens of a social psychologist turned lawyer, Four Seasons of Loneliness explores the fallout of losing the connections so fundamental to our survival and the ways in which we seek to find again the bonds that sustain us.

Saturday, January 21, 2017

Bible Review: Hidden in My Heart Scripture Memory Bible NLT

 As Tyndale says, when children are grounded in faith, they are equipped for the future.



This is such an excellent Bible for kids. I really wish I had one like this, but my kids will get to experience the joy of this little Bible.

The only downside is that it is super thin. Like I feel as if the children would rip the pages if they aren't careful enough. I also dislike that it is a paper cover and not something with more substance like leather or hardcover. Something that little hands can really grip on to.

The Bible is in the New Living Translation, which I don't mind but some people might. Although in various parts the Core Memory Verses are in King James versions. Each of these is printed in the NLT, New International Version (NIV) and King James Version (KJV). There are 100 key verses that this Bible encourages your child to learn. They emphasize valuable lessons in your child's walk with Christ. If your child is grasping them well, there are also 136 extra challenge verses. There is sort of devotionals that help your child learn to love and grow in the Word. 

My favorite thing is the music. I am a person that loves music so having a Bible that comes with 100 songs is kind of cool. We turn this on in the car, in the house, and other places. It is something children ask for. It helps with memory as well. If you can put a tune to the verse, you are likely to remember it more. 

This Bible has different sections. There are three in total. The first is Explore and Apply. In this section, your child will be given a description and encouraged to analyze the verse. After that, they talk about the application of the particular message. This helps show kids how to instill these values into their hearts. The next is pray, which provides a written out prayer. I love that this teaches children now to pray and now to change a prayer for various topics. Lastly,  the section called to dig deeper which has more information about the topic or passage, as well as more verses to study.

I received this book free from the publisher through the Tyndale House Publishers book review bloggers program. This means I was not required or influenced in anyway to write a positive review. The opinions, thoughts, and comments are mine and do not reflect the opinions of Tyndale publishing. 

Goodreads Description



Scripture memorization grounds kids in the faith equip them for the future and solidify relationships with Christ, family, and others.

 The "Hidden in My Heart Scripture Memory Bible" was created to encourage kids not only to read God's Word but also to hide it deep within their hearts.

 One hundred of the Bible's core verses have been set to music by renowned children's author and songwriter Stephen Elkins.

 The 100 songs include a variety of genres and are available in the New Living Translation, New International Version, and King James Version, and all songs are free with the purchase of the Bible. 

Additional interactive features encourage school-age kids to engage with the Word in every place of their life

Annotations by:  Stephen Elkins


Friday, January 20, 2017

Author Interview: Liberty Gilmore




Liberty Gilmore is the author of the Hart and Soul series, long time book blogger and zombie enthusiast. If she’s not in her cramped little study, blogging or writing, you can usually find her with her nose stuck in a good book, experimenting with the slow cooker, and occasionally even out and about running. Except, it rather resembles stumbling most of the time. In fact, she usually looks a lot like those zombies she’s so fond of, and not the fast kind.

Liberty lives in Shropshire with her fiancé, who will get the upgrade to husband in June 2017. You can find her on Twitter at @libertyfallsdwn.

And her website is here: http://prospectandraven.com

When did you first realize you wanted to be a writer? 

When I first discovered RPG forums. I was probably twelve or thirteen and I used to love X-Men RPG forums. I went from that to fanfic, which gave me the bug for reader interaction. But nothing made me sure quite like having to choose what I wanted to do at University. When I came to look at courses, literally the only thing I could see myself studying for three years was writing.

How long does it take you to write a book?

My books are only short – 30,000 words or so, which I can comfortably write in a month if I have a solid outline. All the NaNoWriMo training I’ve done over the years has paid off in that respect! The planning and outlining takes a bit longer. I write series so I like to have a good idea of where the overall story is going before I start putting words on the page. For the Hart and Soul series, I knew it would be nine books – each book its own complete story, with a wider plot arc across the series. I did a rough outline for each book before I started writing, and figuring all that out took a few months.


What is your work schedule like when you're writing?

I work full time during the week, so I’m stuck with evenings and weekends. My other half works shifts, so I try to fit in around him. My favourite for writing (though not for living with someone!) is when he’s on nights. I get up early and make him breakfast for when he gets home at 7am, then he goes to bed and I have the whole morning to myself to write. I’m at my best in the morning, and tend to be more focused. Right now I’m working on edits and rewrites for the next books in the Hart and Soul series, so my morning ‘writing’ usually involves editing a couple of chapters at a time, with short breaks in between to stretch out and not stare at the computer screen for a bit.

What would you say is your interesting writing quirk?

Um… not sure if this is a quirk, but if I’m really struggling with a plot point, I love to clean my house. I used to work in a supermarket stacking shelves, and that was great for the writing, because it was so boring and required no thought whatsoever, which meant I could dedicate all my brain power to running through scenarios in my head. But now I’m an analyst, and though it’s numbers, so it doesn’t tire out my writing brain, it doesn’t leave much space for my mind to wander. Whenever I’m stuck, I like to simulate being back in the supermarket by doing menial jobs around the house. Like washing up or sweeping the floor.

Where do you get your information or ideas for your books?

Like most people, I think, from a variety of places. I’m definitely inspired by films and books and stuff I read online, and also the things going on in my own life. I don’t lift people straight from my life onto the page, but there are definite shades of conversations I’ve had with people, and characteristics of friends and colleagues in there.

But usually, those tid-bits and inspirations are anchored around a ‘what-if’ scenario that I find intriguing. When I started planning the Hart and Soul series, I was really in to Supernatural, Kelley Armstrong and other Urban Fantasy type stories where there is a secret world of monsters and fairy tale creatures, and only certain people know about it. The ‘what-if’ for Hart and Soul was – what if the supernatural was just an every day reality and the police had to deal with it? What would that society be like, and what would those police officers be like?

When did you write your first book and how old were you?

My first ‘book’ that I finished was a 25,000 or so word story about my family being superheroes that I hand wrote when I was about 14. The basic concept was that my mother and her sisters were half alien secret agents and their alien DNA gave them super powers. They got kidnapped, and their children (me, my sisters and my cousins) had to go on a rescue mission, using the powers we’d only just discovered. My power was telekinesis (the best superpower) and my siblings and cousins all had powers based on their personalities – so my cousin who was really sporty had super-speed and my shy sister could turn invisible. It was really cheesy, but my parents were so impressed that they got me a laptop for my writing. This was before laptops were a thing that everybody had, and in a house with 3 other siblings, getting on the family computer wasn’t easy! It was this ancient, terrible laptop that they’d bought really cheap second hand, but I loved it, and it definitely kick started my writing career!

What do you like to do when you're not writing? 

I love music, and spend a lot of time playing the piano. Light of the Seven from the Game of Thrones finale is my current obsession, and I’m trying to learn it by heart. I also enjoy running – I find it great for not only easing all the aches from sitting all day, but also helping me solve plot tangles – it’s another activity that leaves your mind free to wander.

What was one of the most surprising things you learned in creating your books?

I think how neatly things can be tied together if you’re in the zone. One of my biggest fears in writing a series was over keeping the continuity across all the books. Hart and Soul is a nine book series. They’re only 30,000 words long – so that’s like a trilogy of average sized books – but each one is its own complete story, and so much happens, I was worried that plot threads would get dropped and it would all be a hot mess. Some of it is a hot mess, and will need a lot of editing work, but I found when I was writing regularly, and really living and breathing the world, that things came together surprisingly well – like characters I introduced in book 2 for the purpose of that story only coming back to help solve a problem in book 9. I’m definitely learning to trust my brain. And to trust that the messier bits can be sorted with a good edit!

Who are some of your favorite authors that you feel were influential in your work? What impact have they had on your writing?

There are so many. Philip Pullman, whose ‘His Dark Materials’ trilogy made me want to write something that amazing. JK Rowling, whose characters and world I abused over and over in my fanfiction. I seriously credit fanfiction with teaching me all the writing basics. From techniques like plotting and building realistic characters, to the more mechanical side of things – discipline, meeting deadlines, grammar and punctuation – fanfic gave me my grounding in writing, and I definitely wouldn’t have got so in to it without the need to feed my Harry Potter obsession. Kate Griffin, who writes really cool British Urban Fantasy. Kelley Armstrong, Mira Grant, Kristen Cashore, Lilith Saintcrow. There are others, but those are the first that come to mind.

What do you think makes a good story?

For me, it starts with the characters. It’s like the difference between The Walking Dead and Breaking Bad. I love both, but The Walking Dead gets me frustrated sometimes, because the characters are so changeable. They’re set up to be one thing in one episode, then do something completely opposite the next, which isn’t good story telling. If they need to force a plot point, they’ll just make a character do something completely out of character. In Breaking Bad, you know exactly what Walter White is going to do. And it’s always going to be the wrong thing, which is it’s own frustration, but it’s a better story. Because you have a character whose fatal flaw is always going to get him in to bad situations, but whose strengths make you think he probably has the intelligence and cunning to get out of it. The fun part is discovering how.


Thursday, January 19, 2017

Book Review : The Prayer of Protection



This is my first Joesph Prince book. I had never heard of him before reading this book. 

I have to admit I was nervous when I received this book for review. Typically I am not a fan of religious people with large following. I don't watch preachers and pastors on television either. I often feel sometimes those people are a bit misguided. This book, on the other hand, isn't half bad. 

The book has a strong focus on Psalm 91. It is analyzed verse by verse. I enjoyed the in-depth look of one of the psalms but wished there was a bigger range of verses. It felt very constrained. When there are many other bible verses about how God's children are always protected. I really did enjoy the way he debunked some misconceptions some Christians have about our relationship with Jesus. 


He uses biblical stories that have a purpose and real-life testimonies of people, that are supposedly like you and me, to share the power of the Word and this psalm. 

The worst thing for me about this book is the lazy almost condescending writing style. I feel as if the author doesn't want to be here, or believes he is explaining something to child. The tone is both annoying and very insulting. I hate the pep talk, and the your life must be so bad vibe the author gives. 

I believe this book could be good for new and older  Christians that are interested in growing with the Lord. If you struggle with fear and anxiety I encourage you to give this book a chance. 

Disclaimer: I received this book from Faithwords in exchange for my honest and unbiased review. All thoughts and opinions are my own.

Links to purchase this book: Amazon and Barnes&Noble

Goodreads Description: 


In these days of danger, trouble, and evil, New York Times bestselling author Joseph Prince reveals how God's children can have round-the-clock protection through the power of prayer.


THE PRAYER OF PROTECTION unveils the Bible's ultimate psalm of protection, Psalm 91, to help you understand more about how God guards His children. Joseph Prince offers simple keys and practical advice to finding and resting in the secret place of the Most High, where no evil can even come near you.

 You'll begin to live unafraid and with boldness as you allow the certainty of your heavenly Father's love and the sure promises of His Word to guard your heart against every fear. Come under the wings of the Almighty and live life divinely protected, positioned, and free from all fears with our covenant-keeping God!